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		<title>Why You Should Love Pain-in-the-Butt Employees</title>
		<link>http://leadershipwhisperer.com/blog/2009/05/06/why-you-should-love-pain-in-the-butt-employees/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2009 16:12:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kay Cannon</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Managing High Performers]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[I get the question all the time&#8230; &#8220;How can I deal with an employee who is a real pain in the a&#8212;-?  She&#8217;s driving me crazy!&#8221;
When I ask why the employee hasn&#8217;t been given her walking papers, the boss usually spits out, &#8220;Because she&#8217;s one of our best producers.  She&#8217;s too valuable to fire but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get the question all the time&#8230; &#8220;How can I deal with an employee who is a real pain in the a&#8212;-?  She&#8217;s driving me crazy!&#8221;</p>
<p>When I ask why the employee hasn&#8217;t been given her walking papers, the boss usually spits out, &#8220;Because she&#8217;s one of our best producers.  She&#8217;s too valuable to fire but she makes my life hell and stirs up everybody else!&#8221;</p>
<p>I <em>love</em> these kinds of employees and you should, too.  Here&#8217;s why.</p>
<p>They&#8217;ve still got a fire burning in their gut.  It&#8217;s just a misdirected fire.   As a leader it&#8217;s a lot easier to re-direct a fire than it is to rekindle cold embers.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d much rather have a passionate, pain-in-the-butt employee than one who is a business-as-usual employee or &#8211; <em>even worse</em> &#8211; an employee that has quit but still comes to work collecting a paycheck.</p>
<p>Re-direct the passion and you&#8217;re going to transform the pain-in-the-butt into an outstanding contributor.   I&#8217;ve done it myself and I&#8217;ve seen it done by other leaders countless times.</p>
<p>But here&#8217;s the deal.  You can&#8217;t just keep doing your same old leadership tricks and hoping for a different outcome.  You&#8217;ve got to drop your attitude and dig beneath your own frustration to discover what is motivating the employee to be difficult.  You need to become Sherlock Holmes.</p>
<p>Here are some questions to help your investigation:</p>
<p>1.  Is the employee angry about some perceived injustice?  (Hint: Bosses tend to expect more out of high performers than they do other employees.)</p>
<p>2.  Is the employee bored?  (Hint: High performers often feed on change and challenge and love to collect the next trophy.)</p>
<p>3.  Is the employee wanting more power and influence in the workplace?  (Hint:  Money only goes so far in rewarding a high performer.  Respect, responsibility and authority &#8211; even if it&#8217;s coming from the gossip club &#8211; often fill the gap between money and meaning.)</p>
<p>4.  Is the employee frustrated about some aspect of their job?  (Hint:  High performers frequently don&#8217;t like rules that seem ridiculous or decisions that don&#8217;t contribute to results &#8211; like time wasting staff meetings or ill-informed strategies.)</p>
<p>5.  What have I done to contribute to this problem?  (Hint:  High performers want to be heard and valued by the folks in charge.  If they only get your attention by causing problems, then that&#8217;s what they are going to do.)</p>
<p>One last thing.  Ditch the hero routine.  Don&#8217;t try to save a bad apple.  It&#8217;ll ruin your whole team.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s face it.  Occasionally even the best leaders hire a dud or inherit a crazy person.  I know because I&#8217;ve been in both situations.  If your pain-in-the-butt employee is acting unstable or is a real threat to other people or your business, consult with your HR department pronto to determine the safest and quickest way to deal with them.   Don&#8217;t tackle this challenge by yourself.</p>
<p>But&#8230; if you have a pain-in-the-butt, high performing employee, get busy!  You&#8217;ve got a diamond waiting to be polished.  Want to solve the high performance puzzle quicker?  Call me.  859-266-2436.</p>
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		<title>You Can&#8217;t Coach Effort.</title>
		<link>http://leadershipwhisperer.com/blog/2009/02/20/you-cant-coach-effort/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Feb 2009 19:29:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kay Cannon</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Decision-Making]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Hiring]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night the University of Kentucky women&#8217;s basketball team beat perennial powerhouse, Tennesse.  For Kentucky it was only the seventh win ever over the Lady Vols.
After the game, Pat Summitt, Tennessee&#8217;s coach and all-time winningest Division 1 basketball coach was quoted in the Lexington Herald-Leader.
&#8220;In 35 years coaching, this probably has been the least energy [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night the University of Kentucky women&#8217;s basketball team beat perennial powerhouse, Tennesse.  For Kentucky it was only the seventh win ever over the Lady Vols.</p>
<p>After the game, Pat Summitt, Tennessee&#8217;s coach and all-time winningest Division 1 basketball coach was quoted in the Lexington Herald-Leader.</p>
<p>&#8220;In 35 years coaching, this probably has been the least energy of any team I&#8217;ve coached,&#8221; Summitt said. &#8220;I&#8217;m not good at coaching effort. It was a total lack of passion. I don&#8217;t know that you can teach that to a player.&#8221;</p>
<p>Coach Summitt hit the nail on the head.  You can coach, teach, inspire, motivate, strategize, challenge and bend over backwards but it&#8217;s all wasted energy if your team &#8211; whether it&#8217;s in sports or business &#8211; doesn&#8217;t put forth effort&#8230; if they don&#8217;t have a fire burning in their belly.</p>
<p>Same holds true at work.  If you&#8217;ve got an employee that simply doesn&#8217;t seem to care about anything or doesn&#8217;t seem to want to put forth effort, why keep them?  Especially in today&#8217;s deep pool of top notch talent looking for a job.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s never been a better time to get rid of the deadwood.</p>
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